Sunday, May 20, 2012

Gay Charlotte - Drew - Day 4


Me encanta Alternative Breaks.

Our first significant activity of the day was visiting the second half of the Mint Museum. This collection consisted of artifacts and older art. One special exhibit there displayed various costumes and formal attire from the past. This was my take from the visit:

Cool, yet frightening, masks at the Mint Museum


I swear this is the evil lady from “The Woman in Black”



He so fly.

After this, we went to a nearby park and played the board game Cranium. Frankly, it did not go well for my valiant trio; after a half hour, we were losing considerably. Luckily, it was time to go to the Center, so we ended without getting too far into the game.
Arriving at the Center, we met up with Solita, the woman we were introduced to the previous evening who works at the Charlotte Department of Health. We worked for about an hour and a half making safe sex kits while Solita gave a brilliant lecture on the types of STIs. The small setting deepened the discussion as we learned about the spread of AIDS and syphilis in Charlotte, and what is being done to counteract this trend. I probably learned more practical information in that one sitting than I learned in an entire year of sex education in high school P.E.



Big Jay with the "golden ticket".


After this, we went to the White Rabbit LGBT bookstore and browsed for a while. We asked why it was called that; they didn’t know.
Back at the LGBT Center, we were treated with amazing cheesecake from one of the volunteers, and then we went to go see PAULY SHORE!! I had never heard of him, but apparently he’s an actor who also performed on SNL for a while, and he now does stand-up comedy. The show ended up being pretty funny, and the entire show was covered by the Center!






Pauly Shore signed our Flat Jay twice.

After all these shenanigans were over, we returned to the Church and played more Cranium while having an intense discussion over religion. One of the highlights of the game occurred when one of the Cranium clues was about the Fresh Prince of Bel Aire, and our entire group suddenly burst out into the infamous theme song. Sure it wasn’t perfect, but it was such a blast from the past that I couldn’t help but be impressed.

Until next blog.

-Drew Harger

Gay Charlotte - Natalie - Day 6

 So we ran out of bananas today. In happier news, today we headed over to the LGBT Center to work with Campus Pride!

Campus Pride is an organization that works with college campuses around the country to assist with programming and social events, and is a place where people can go for a number of LGBTQ resources related to college. We worked with Matt, the Web Master of the Campus Pride website, to transfer data to their new website. He explained that they were creating a single platform for Campus Pride resources instead of what they have in right now - multiple websites for their data. I had a lot of fun using the love of my life, Wordpress, and I think others enjoyed getting to know the platform as well.
Some of us bought friendship bracelets at Target.

Later on we had a picnic in a park near the church, went to Target two more times and played Telephone Pictionary. Ashley and I cooked a delicious dinner of pancakes and sausage. Mitch would like me to tell you that he also flipped a few pancakes, and they were abundantly adequate. We also may or may not have blown flour into Blake’s face. After consuming our delicious meal, the group headed uptown. We had frozen yogurt while discussing conspiracy theories, politics and being stuck in the friend zone.

Right after fro-yo we had one of the most interesting experiences thus far. Leah began talking to a nicer looking older man at a hot dog stand. He asked why we were here in Charlotte, we explained, and he then proceeded to rant about the horrors of homosexuality. Leah handled the situation superbly and attempted to educate him. Sometimes though, there is no leeway to be had. This lead us to form our trip’s motto: Never meet someone at a hot dog stand.

Have an enlightening day!

-Natalie Parker

Gay Charlotte - Natalie - Day 5

Today was one of our fullest days! We headed over to Crisis Assistance Ministries, an organization that helps people with lower income statuses pay their rent, utilities, etc. and also provides a free food closet that individuals can visit once a month. When we first arrived we got a tour of the warehouse from John, the volunteer coordinator at the ministry. It was different from any place that I’ve volunteered before, because I knew what we were getting into and all the good that we were about to do before we actually started working.

In Charlotte, three in seven homeless people are children and it has one of the highest rates of unemployment in the country. We spent the day taking inventory of donations, hanging up and color-coding t-shirts and shorting shoes. This kept us busy for the majority of the day and we had a ton of fun!

Leah and Ashley sorting donated clothing.

Blake, Mitch and Drew are trying to ramp up their dapper-factor.

When we got back to St. Johns in the evening, Rachel graced us with her cooking skills. Though she didn’t quite know how to cook we all managed to pull together and make a delicious meal. It didn’t even matter that Drew dumped the entire pot of noodles in the sink while trying to drain them. Didn’t even matter.

We stopped for a photo op with Paul Revere.

After partaking in our supper, we decided to explore the church. There’s a large window in the gym where we sleep and the members of our group have a running theory that there is someone sitting in there in the dark, watching us sleep and performing a social experiment. We decided to try and find the room, but ended up discovering the nice Romanian lady who cleans the church. She regaled us with stories of when people had broken into the church and scared her in the dark hallways as she cleaned.

Suffice to say, we were a bit unsettled after that, so we decided to watch a little bit of Harry Potter 7.2 to cleanse our brains after the scary tales of knives and killers.

Day five was, in a word, eventful. For once we didn’t run out of bananas!

-Natalie Parker

Saturday, May 19, 2012

Overalls are an Attitude: Day 5 at CASA

This morning, work at the garden was bittersweet.  It felt good knowing that we had accomplished something great the night before, and it felt good knowing our work after this morning would NOT involved getting dirty and bitten and burned, but we were sad to leave Lee and Karen, and maybe it's just me, but I've grown attached to the garden, too.

All we had to do this morning was take down everything we had put up the night before.  And that only took maybe an hour and a half.  We asked Lee to adopt us, and he said sure.  We also asked where he had gotten his overalls, because we had developed a fondness for them. He told us, "You know, for me, overalls are an attitude.   When I'm wearing them, whatever needs to get done, it'll get done."  I thought that was funny, but also a good description of this week in general.  We had a lot of unexpected things come our way, and not all of them were much fun, but we got done what had to get done. 

I think we should all "wear our overalls" a little more often.  Volunteering is hard work, and often thankless (we were fortunate to get such wonderful thanks from all of the Huntsville community), but if we want to make a difference or see a change, we have to do it anyway.   Whatever it takes.

Again, we got to leave early, but not until we finally got a chance to actually harvest something besides weeds.  Karen had us collect some peas and Swiss chard to deliver to senior next week.  I'm glad we got to do that so we could see our work directly help someone.

The rest of the day was our day off!  We spent it at the Space and Rocket Center.  Huntsville was the location where they based the rocket research and building after World War II.  It's actually a really interesting story.  Werner von Braun was a German scientist who was conducting research in Germany during the war, but when it became clear Germany was losing, he had to decide to either watch his work be destroyed in war, or ask the Allies for help.  He surrendered to the Americans, knowing they would take his research to its fully potential, and they transferred his entire team and research to Huntsville, AL.  It was there that they built the rockets that launched Apollo 11 and other missions to space.  Having an afternoon off was exactly what we needed.  The space center is a museum, but there are lots of rides and activities that made it seem like a theme park, too.

After that, we found a local restaurant that was clearly one of those places you go with your family every week for "the usual."  They had delicious Southern cooking-hush puppies, BBQ, Cajun, fried okra, and slaw.  The women who worked there took great care of us, and we were very appreciative of their hospitality.

Tomorrow is our full day off.  We're going to go take up those offers of a free meal and Botanical Gardens, as well as hike the State Park. I'm excited to get some more cultural experience in Huntsville!

Ciao for now.

3 2 1 BLAST OFF! CASA in Alabama, Day 6!

Another even EARLIER day in the garden. BUT, after two hours, Lee and Karen told us to go home early and enjoy the day.  With it being a Saturday, the community garden already had plenty of volunteers pouring in to help out, and with all of the work we had done during the week, there wasn't a whole lot to do--even around the garden--except take decorations done (which we had already done a majority of in the two hours we had been there).  So, after a nice shower and a quick lunch, Team CASA headed out for our first true adventure taking in the sights of Alabama.  Having heard non-stop about it, we went to the Huntsville Space and Rocket Museum, and spent practically the whole day there!  That place is huge!  Besides the traditional museum exhibits (where we learned all about Werner Von Braun, the man behind the rocket and a Huntsville citizen) there were actually theme park rides in the outside exhibit! ...Okay, so more like super intense simulators that happened to be more frightening versions of theme park rides, but close enough.  Between you and me, twice I nearly peed my pants I was so frightened, and Meghan definitely started screaming before one of the rides had actually started ..but it was very educational, and so much fun!  After catching a short film in the IMAX theater, we walked around the museum's biggest exhibit, so big in fact that it had to be housed in a separate building.  This is because, hanging from the museum's ceiling, is an actual, real-life, full-size rocket.  Not just any rocket, but one like those the astronauts from the Apollo missions would have been launched in.  Let me tell you, THOSE THINGS ARE MASSIVE.  Everything in the museum was cool, and I really wish I had had more time to read through things (as it was the rest of the group was already waiting on me) but that exhibit was by far the most impressive. If you ever come to Huntsville, go there.
Finally, after a long search through the GPS, Team CASA settled on some southern cuisine from a restaurant called 'Green Brier,' and--speaking as an experienced KC BBQ fan--the BBQ pork sandwich was delicious.  I have just decided that 'Southern' is synonymous with hospitality and good food.
Being slightly sleep deprived from a festive game of Sardines in the church the night before, and an early morning this morning, I think Team CASA will call it an early night tonight.  But, as we sit here enjoying yet another Starbucks/internet date, we are really excited for tomorrow's adventure (which will include hiking and a garden tour--but I'll get to that later) and for the rest of our service learning opportunities this upcoming week. This has really been a great experience, and by far the highlight of my summer.

-Tasha Cerny, CASA Summer Alternative Break, 2012

There's No Such Thing as Cain't: Day 4 at CASA

Today was probably the most fun day I've had in the garden.  It was the day of the party, so the pressure was on to get things done on time!  Luckily, there wasn't much to do besides cosmetics.  Cosmetics for the garden, that is...we left the garden just as sweaty and gross as ever.  Our first job was to pour lighter fluid into old, sooty, rusted, tiki torches, which meant spilling lighter fluid all over the grass and ourselves because there wasn't a decent funnel anywhere on the property.  Caroline sported flammable pants and oily facial streaks all day after that task.  Personally, I was happy to get out of the heat and into the shade, even if it meant inhaling fumes.

We then put up Christmas lights on thin ropes hung all over the garden which would light the path and look "rustic" and cute for the party.  We also filled mason jars with sand and tealights and placed them around the garden marking each row and  hung them from the ceiling of the pavilion.  It was little details like that which took a surprising amount of time, but made all the difference for the garden's atmosphere.

A few of us were tasked with one last round of weeding.  By that point, I'd gotten used to it, and almost enjoyed it.

LeeLee was in the garden all day today, giving orders and decorating while also taking calls from the restaurant she owns.  She was so nice to us and very grateful for our help.  To show her appreciation, she brought us lunch from her restaurant, which is adorably named Lyn's Gracious Goodness.  It was certainly a nice change to have big chicken saldad and turkey BLT sandwiches and homebaked brownies and cookies instead of our wimpy WalMart sandwiches.  Because she ordered in lunch, we stayed in the garden all day instead of going home to rest.  This meant we got things done pretty early, and were able to go home at 2:30...

...Which was GREAT because we were invited to the party!  Lee, LeeLee, and Karen pulled some strings and convinced "management" that after all the hard work we had done there was no reason we shouldn't get to go.  All they asked was that we come back cleaned up and an hour early to help sort out the pre-party chaos.

We wore our Alternative Break shirts with cute shorts and sandals and did our hair and make-up for once.  It was a good thing we were there.  Even with all the restaurant staff and volunteers, there were a lot of odds and ends that needed to be done, like lighting all those tea lights and tiki torches.  I was in charge of garnishing all the delicious food with flowers and putting out napkins. 

Then the guests started flooding in.  It was a little awkward at first; we were definitely the youngest ones there, and I felt a little bad about eating their food when we had been added last minute to the guest list, but everyone was very welcoming, and we ended up having a lot of fun.  The food was delicious.  They had vegetable and chicken kabobs, watermelon salad, gazpacho, salsa, rosemary popcorn, cheese crackers, and lima bean salad, as well as some tasty chocolate tarts.  (Again, a nice change from our WalMart mac and cheese).  Everywhere we went people were stopping us saying "I heard you're responsible for all of this!"  Or if they didn't stop us, we could here them say "Those are the KU girls who cleaned up the garden."  The ones who did talk to us thanked us over and over. One woman said she had never seen the garden look so good.  Another offered to buy us all lunch, and the CEO of the Botanical Gardens invited us as her guests to the park.  People couldn't believe that a bunch of 20 year olds would give up part of their summer to weed someone else's garden.  We sort of hinted that it wasn't what we had expected, but we were happy to help a good cause and genuinely appreciative of the experience.

One gentlemen went and spoke to the band and made us do a "line dance" for everyone because we were from Kansas.  Of course, none of us know how to line dance, so it was pretty embarassing, but funny.  It was nice to just be silly in the garden for once.

A perk for me was discovering that Chester, the man who had been forcing us to weed all week, is the father of the woman who runs Steppenwolf Theatre in Chicago, which is one of the most famous theatres in the world.  He found out I was a theatre major and said, "I have to talk to you!" and told me his daughter's whole story...how she was an unhappy accountant who quit and joined a dance team which tanked, how she went back to grad school for arts administration, and how after several internships and a lot of hard work, she was offered a position at Steppenwolf.  I asked how she did it, and he said, "That's Rachel, you know, she just does things.  I tell everybody, 80% of anything is wanting it.  And there's no such thing as cain't.  Whatever you do, you gotta find your niche in the world and want it."  He went on with his encouraging, adorable, Alabama aphorisms, and I was so appreciated I almost cried.  He was so encouraging and supportive of me and his daughters and the arts, which was exactly what I needed.  It just goes to show, you never know where you're going to find a friend, or a possible "in" in this world.  If I hadn't done all that weeding for Chester, I'd never be able to say I have a connection to Steppenwolf.  I'm not saying gardening wouldn't have been worth it without that happening, I'm just saying what goes around comes around, and hard work always pays off.

We left early, knowing we'd be on clean-up crew the next morning. But that didn't stop us from having fun back at the church.  We played sardines and wore ourselves out with laughter after a long hard week.  It was definitely worth all the pain of the garden to go home satisfied with what we had accomplished.  We didn't get to work with the elderly, but seeing 200 people there in that working garden, and knowing they were all buying tickets and sponsoring rows and buying raffle tickets, I knew we had helped raise the money that would really do some elderly citizens some good.

Ciao for now.

CASA in Alabama, Day 5.

Team CASA woke up for another early morning in the garden.  After a super long, full day in the garden on Tuesday, none of us were really looking forward to another eight hours of hard labor.  However, as Jenny and Lisa tried to keep spirits up with an "I don't think it will be so bad, it should be a lot of decorating, since the party is tonight," it turned out they were right.  We spent the day putting Christmas lights on trees and assisting with flower arrangements.  Of course a day in the garden wouldn't be complete without pulling a few weeds, so we did a little bit of that as well.  The whole day Karen, our lovely garden-woman, and Lee, our fearless garden leader, spent every moment they could talking about their appreciation for us and how much they wanted us to come to the party.  Being a fundraising event for some of CASA's major donors, we were, of course, not invited...originally.  However, Lee was determined and worked a little magic to get us in, and before you know it, like Cinderella we were headed home to get cleaned up and ready for night in the garden.
We arrived back at the garden fairly early--Leelee (the Reese Witherspoon look-a-like in charge of planning the event) wanted us there to help with the last finishing touches, and so soon each of us was setting out food, putting up flower arrangements, or (my personal favorite) lighting torches like the pyros we actually are. As evening fell and the sunlight disappeared beneath the horizon the garden light up like a million fireflies as all of the well placed candle jars and Christmas lights began to shine.  It was truly beautiful, and to know that part of the result came from the work of our hands was absolutely satisfying.  The food was also amazing, and I got to try my first cup of southern sweet tea (absolutely delicious)!
The evening was so magical, most especially because of the wonderful people we met.  Jenny met a man whose daughter runs one of the most prestigious theater companies in America, and Meghan and I met a woman, Dianne, who offered to buy our entire group lunch at Lynn's (Leelee's mother's restaurant, who actually served us lunch for free early this same day (their sandwiches and desserts are delicious)). Our whole group was introduced to the Huntsville Botanical Gardens' CEO, who is giving us free passes to get into the gardens, as well.  The whole night I think Team CASA kind of stole the show.  We wore our matching KU Alternative Breaks shirts, and everyone thought we were adorable.  Lee and Karen spent the whole night talking about how much we had done for them, and everyone was just so grateful.
Overall the night has been the highlight of Team CASA's week thus far, and only further convinced me of the incredible kindness these people hold in their hearts.  #smileonourfaces/loveinourhearts

-Tasha Cerny, CASA Summer Alternative Break, 2012